Danni,
You are AWESOME !!! He was at least honest about what he wanted from her. This other ex-boyfriend of hers would call the house and play the friendship angle.He even came to our wedding. I would hear from him, my ex, and her mother, how they are just "friends".
Which one of these two guys do you think she was fucking a month after( probably before ) the divorce was final ???
The point is that BOTH of those guys wanted to fuck her. I can somewhat respect the guy that was up front about it. The other guy is a lame flower.
I can live with myself in knowing that when I was married, I threw away my little black book and would steer clear of ex-girlfriends. There are some nights in recent years when I wish I didn't toss those old numbers in the trash.
At the time , it was the worst point in my life. In hindsight, my divorce is a blessing. I walk around my house now and say , "There is plenty of space here ,but no more room for anyone but my kiddies and me." Of course one should NEVER SAY NEVER, but, I have a rule that I will know and date someone for more than a year before they get the HONOR of meeting my kiddies
The only thing that sucks about my divorce is that my kiddies are only at our house 50% of the time. The great thing is that I go to 100% of their extra-curricular functions. My ex-wife doesn't do that , and sadly, my children see that. So , when it comes down to it, I see my children a heck of a lot more than my ex sees them.
When it's all said and done, I know I've done the right things for my children,myself, and everyone I come in contact with. THAT makes me feel good. I spent a long time trying to fix a marriage and understand the other person. It frustrated me intensely.
I am not overly religious but I can say that I am GOD fearing.
My life started to change when I started saying a small part of the SERENITY PRAYER every day :
God grant me the serenity
to accept the things I cannot change;
courage to change the things I can;
and wisdom to know the difference.
That is why I am better at NOT fighting pointless battles. In the past, If someone argued with me, I COULD ARGUE LOUDER, WITH BIGGER WORDS, PUFFING MY CHEST, ETC... It gets you nowhere.
Yes, I still feel every emotion I ever have. I am still as passionate as I ever was.I just don't let myself get worked up over things I can't control anymore.Karma will find those that willfully hurt others.
As long as I have the love and respect of my children,family ,and friends, then I am a wealthy man.
**** Now , Let's get back to talking about the Vin-man !!!
BUTTFUCK